Clinical hypnotherapist · 25+ years · UK
Clinical hypnotherapy for real change — whoever you are.
Confidential, practical, judgement-free support with anxiety, confidence, stress, habits, relationships and life change — for people of all genders. With a recognised specialism in men's psychosexual health.
Whoever you are, you're welcome here.
Whatever you're carrying — anxiety, low confidence, stress, a habit you can't shift, a relationship knot or a big life change — you don't have to have it all figured out before you reach out. Many of the things that hold us back are driven by old patterns and the mind–body connection, not "something wrong with you."
I am Dante Harker, a clinical hypnotherapist with 25+ years' experience, working with people of all genders. I also hold a specialism in men's psychosexual health and teach that work to other therapists. Sessions are private, respectful and focused on change you can notice in real life.
Who I work with
People of all genders — individuals and couples. You don't need a label or a diagnosis to come, and you don't need to be "in crisis." If something is getting in the way of the life you want, that's enough of a reason.
Sessions are confidential, respectful and judgement-free.
What I help with
Anxiety and overwhelm, low confidence and self-worth, stress and burnout, low mood, sleep, unwanted habits, fears and phobias, relationship struggles, and navigating big life changes.
If you're not sure whether your situation "counts," it almost certainly does — just ask.
My specialism: men's psychosexual health
Alongside my general practice, I'm a recognised specialist in men's psychosexual health — ED, premature ejaculation, performance anxiety, intimacy and confidence — and I teach this work to other therapists.
See the dedicated page on men's psychosexual health · background on About.
You do not need to explain everything in writing. A few words about what's going on is enough to begin.
A focused 3-session programme
The Identity Update™
Changed your life but still feel like the old you? My own three-session programme updates the part of you that hasn't caught up yet — so the change finally feels real. Includes my 100×7 app: the daily practice that makes it stick.
£297 · introductory price
Discover The Identity UpdateFAQs
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Who do you work with, and what can you help with?
People of all genders — individuals and couples. Common reasons people get in touch include anxiety, confidence, stress, low mood, sleep, unwanted habits, fears, relationships and big life changes. We choose what fits your situation — clinical hypnotherapy first, with NLP, parts work and other tools when useful.
I also hold a specialism in men's psychosexual health.
Do I have to explain everything before we speak?
No. It is enough to say you would like a confidential conversation, with a few words about what's going on. We take it from there at a pace that suits you.
Is what I share confidential?
Yes. Sessions are confidential and judgement-free, with the standard legal and safeguarding exceptions described on the confidentiality page.
How do sessions work — in person, online, how often?
I am UK-based. We usually start with a private first conversation by phone, WhatsApp, text or email — whichever feels most comfortable.
Ongoing sessions (how often, and in person vs remote) are agreed together around your diary and what you are working on.
How much does therapy cost?
An individual session is £80. A block of four sessions is £280 (£70 per session). Lower-cost options may be available for students or those on a low income — see booking and prices.
How do I get started?
Email, WhatsApp or phone for a private first conversation. Use the contact page or see booking and prices for fees and practicalities.
Client reviews
Real change, handled with care
The sessions on men's sexual health were handled with incredible sensitivity and professionalism. I feel much more confident and at peace with myself now.
I finally feel like I have a handle on my anxiety after years of trying different therapists. The integrated approach Dante uses made all the difference for me.
Dante's approach is refreshingly direct and deeply supportive. Practical strategies that actually worked — not vague reassurance.
How sessions work
We start with a private first conversation — phone, WhatsApp, text or email, whichever feels easiest. You can keep the first message brief.
Ongoing work is confidential, structured and practical: we identify what keeps repeating, what you want instead, and what to practise between sessions. I am UK-based; session format and frequency are agreed around your diary.
This is real clinical work — I also teach therapists via Gold Leaf Training, including my specialism in men's psychosexual health.
What working with me is like
People often arrive unsure whether their problem is "big enough," or worried they'll have to explain everything before they know if I'm the right person. You won't be judged, and you can start small. This is work I have done for over 25 years.
I am a registered clinical hypnotherapist (NCH) with training in counselling and integrative psychotherapy, NLP, parts work, psychosexual therapy and more — so when anxiety, relationships, old patterns or lifestyle factors are part of the picture, we can address them properly.
My style is direct and human: plain language, clear next steps, and work that continues between sessions where that helps. If something needs medical investigation, we say so and signpost appropriately — this is therapeutic work, not a substitute for medical care where that applies.
Read qualifications and experience, or who this approach suits, before you get in touch if that helps you decide.
Specialist work deserves a space where nothing needs to be minimised — and where practical change is the point.